A Lesson from Each Marathon

A Lesson from Each Marathon

By Coach Adolfo Salgueiro

For those who have only run one marathon, it is an adventure. For those who have completed the distance more than once, the only thing in common between one and another finish is the 26.2-mile distance. Each one brings a new challenge, a new experience, a new obstacle to overcome, and a new journey.

On January 19, I completed my 12th-lifetime marathon. At 59, I am unsure if I have another one in me, but I am not ruling it out. What I do know is that from each one I can take a life and/or a running lesson. Looking back on 42 years of marathoning, these are my takeaways from each one of them:

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1 – Orange Bowl Marathon 1983 – Age: 17 – Time: 4:11:11

Running a marathon is a magnificent experience. Lifechanging. But it is not an easy task. It requires effort, sweat, suffering, and wondering why in the world you chose to impose this on yourself and on purpose. Once you cross the finish line, something wonderful happens. A transformation to last a lifetime. And for some weird and masochistic reason, you start thinking of the next one.

2 – New York 1983 – Age 18 – Time: 4:51:36Marathon

I thought I could go sub-4 just because I was close to my previous one. But the stupidity of youth got in the way. Having run one before is no substitute for decent training. Had I trained better, with consistency and dedication, I could have avoided the suffer-fest I endured on this cold and rainy NY morning. I learned the hard way that there is no substitution for preparation. It doesn’t have to be perfect, but it has to be worth the “training” label, at least. 

Marathon3 – Caracas 1984 – Age 19 – Time 3:32:08

My all-time PR thanks to the guidance of an experienced runner who knew what he was doing and coached me. The difference between this result and the previous one is that I put in the work. At 19 years of age, I sacrificed the partying, the drinking, and the late nights with my friends so I could put forth my best effort. I hit the wall at the 32nd Km (Mile 20) yet still set a solid PR. Looking back, if we knew then what we know now about in-race calorie intake and electrolyte replenishment, I may have a better PR. But that doesn’t matter now. Hard work paid off, even if hitting the wall.

Marathon4 – Caracas 1985 – Age 20 – Time 3:35:04

Even with my responsibilities at work, school and trying to fit in some of the fun I sacrificed the previous year, I had a successful race despite missing my PR by 2:56. The experience from the previous year allowed me to manage the race better and even though the last 5 miles were still tough, I did not walk. The years of accumulated effort compounded so a successful race could be achieved despite the hot weather I confronted.

Marathon5 – Philadelphia 2012 – Age 47 – Time: 5:41:40

Eight years after my 2nd knee operation and having accepted the doctor told me I could not run anymore, I discovered racewalking and came back to long distances, regimented training and rediscovered the lure of footraces, long distances and runner’s highs. I accepted the days of running at 3:30 were over and trained for what my older body would allow me. So, 26 years after my previous marathon, I racewalked through the City of Brotherly Love and cried while crossing the finish line while F-U-ing the doctor who told me I couldn’t do it. You can do more than you think possible if you adjust to your circumstances.

Marathon6 – Chicago 2013 – Age 48 – Time: 5:44:56

Your body can do way more than you expect from it if you train it, fuel it, and take care of it, not just during the 3 or 4 months prior to your marathon, but for many years or for a lifetime. I endured three visits to the emergency room 3 times during my training, and I participated with the prospect of passing a kidney stone at any time. My training was not ideal (but unlike my NYC 1983 experience, I did train some), yet I finished and did so with a grateful smile despite being my personal worst. I did the best I could with what was available for me that day. It is not always about a PR for a marathon to be a success.

Marathon7 – Marine Corps 2014 – Age 49 – Time: 5:33:31

With three years of racewalking and two marathons under my soles, I was ready to go for a PR. I got a racewalking expert to write me a training plan; I followed it to the tee; I sacrificed late nights, ate clean, put in the work, and traveled to DC feeling very strong. The work paid off, and an 8-minute racewalking PR was the result. It was a bit hard at the end and I lost my sub 5:30 in the last 6 miles, but there is nothing to regret. Another successful marathon when focusing on the task.

Marathon8 – New York 2017 – Age 52 – Time: 4:51:48

In 2015 I realized I was racewalking because the doctor told me not to run, not because I had tried and failed. So, I tried and did not fail and two years later, I was at the Verrazano Narrows bridge, 34 years after my first participation. I trained diligently, and the results reflect my efforts. I was at my desired 4:30 pace until we got back to Manhattan, when my left knee started acting up. As soon as we entered Central Park at mile 23 I realized it was not worth permanent injury, so I mostly walked the last 5K and still finished 12 seconds off my NYC when I was 18. Hard work pays off even if your race gets derailed at the end.

Marathon9 – Berlin 2018 – Age 53 – Time: 5:09:03

Sometimes you may be fully prepared; you did everything right, you worked hard, you are at the right weight, and you are mentally there, yet your race totally sucks. So much that you lose the joy of what you are doing, you finish 40 minutes above the time you trained for and then swear you’ll never do this again. Good training is no guarantee of a good race. Sometimes the stars are just not aligned for you.

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10 – New York 2020 – Age 55 – Time 5:28:14

Didn’t I swear I wasn’t going to do this anymore? In the middle of the pandemic, I had been dealing with a congenital heart issue for the last 18 months or so. I was told not to raise my heart rate over a certain threshold. I kept running super easy through the lockdown. So I could keep focused, I took the NYC Marathon virtual challenge. I set up a race/walk protocol; I trained diligently, set up a route and support system, and I completed the distance. As with my knee and racewalking a few years ago, I realized I could adjust to my circumstances and still conquer another marathon.

Marathon11 – Houston 2022 – Age 56 – Time 5:16:45

I registered for this marathon two weeks before my June open-heart surgery because I wanted to make sure I had something pressing me to get back to work. I was cleared to run in September, and 4 months later, I ran/walked the marathon. This marathon told me that in certain circumstances, time goals are irrelevant because the fact that you can bring your body back to perform the task overshadows any clock. This finish allowed me to, in just 7 months, to pass the page and move on to the rest of my life.

Marathon12 – Houston Marathon 2025 – Age 59 – Time 5:16:52

After two difficult years of running, when little went right, when I wondered if my best running days were behind me, and when I had to accept that after my open-heart surgery, I may have lost a step or two, training finally clicked, and I was ready for another marathon. I had the privilege of running side-by-side for 20 miles with two good friends. Then we parted ways and at Mile 23, my left IT band started killing me and forced me to suffer/walk the last 5K. I was happy to finish but unhappy with the result. It happens. Good training never guarantees a good result.

The leitmotif of my marathoning has been overcoming obstacles and learning lessons on the way. Even though my lifetime PR is decent at 3:32, I accept that after 40+ years in action, my best running years are behind me. That doesn’t diminish any accomplishments I may add to my medal rack between now and the day the Lord calls me.

Sharing what I’ve learned with the marathoners I train is what keeps me focused and thankful for the struggles and successes along the way. Even though I crossed the marathon finish line only 12 times, through my athletes, I have crossed it over 100 times.

 
 
Optimism vs. Wishful Thinking

Optimism vs. Wishful Thinking

By Coach Adolfo Salgueiro

I recently read Ball Four, the classic baseball book from the 1970s by the controversial major league pitcher Jim Bouton. In it, Bouton discusses the 1969 spring training with the expansion Seattle Pilots and the high expectations management had for their upcoming season: “We may be building ourselves up to that kind of fall with this club. Everybody is saying we’re going to be great. There’s a difference between optimism and wishful thinking.”

Optimism vs. Realism

Sitting on the couch wishing you were running won’t get you very far in achieving your goals (Image by Windows Copilot)

Don’t we all know a runner who fits into that last sentence? When was the last time we were the runner matching it? I smelled a blog post right away. Thus, here we are.

As runners, we are all about optimism. We must be optimists if we want to look into the future and visualize what we want, how to achieve it, and how to set up a map from where we are to where we anticipate being. Sure, some daydreaming is allowed, and it is even necessary to keep ourselves moving forward, especially through the inevitable periods of difficulty that will show up in every training cycle.

According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, optimism is “an inclination to put the most favorable construction upon actions and events or to anticipate the best possible outcome.”

If we ran a 1:05 in our last 10K, we dream not just of the 59:59, but why not a 55:00? If we ran a 3:20 marathon, we would know by heart all the mathematical breakdowns needed for that magical Sub-3. These are healthy and within the boundaries of feasibility.

But if you just ran that first sub-20 5K and started focusing on qualifying for the Olympics next year, or if you are eying that marathon PR but haven’t run in three months, then we are entering the realm of wishful thinking.

The same dictionary defines wishful thinking as “the attribution of reality to what one wishes to be true or the tenuous justification of what one wants to believe.”

Optimism is a great tool to keep you engaged and focused. Wishful thinking is a recipe for a letdown and/or injury. Sitting on the couch wishing you were running will not make you a better runner.

Examples of Optimism:

• I am trusting the process my coach has laid out for me. I will follow it up to the best of my ability.

• I’ve seen gradual improvements in my training, and I know I can keep progressing if I stay consistent.

• I didn’t hit my goal in this race, but I know what I need to adjust in training to improve next time.

• I’m excited to tackle the next training cycle because it’s designed to address my weaknesses.

• My pace has been steadily improving, and I know that if I stay disciplined, I’ll reach my target time.

• I’ve learned from my setbacks, and I trust that I’ll achieve my personal best with perseverance.

• I’ve been putting in the work, and I trust that the results will follow with patience and dedication.

Optimism vs. Realism

Being an optimist and doing something about it is the path to achieve your running goals (Photo Pexels)

Examples of Wishful Thinking:

• When I get off this couch and start training, I will really focus on being the best runner I can be.

• I haven’t trained consistently, but I can still PR in my next race if I push hard on race day.

• I skipped a few workouts this week, but I’ll just make up for it by running harder next week.

• I don’t need a specific training plan; I’ll just wing it and rely on my natural ability.

• I haven’t been doing speed work, but I still can hit my goal pace in my upcoming race.

• I’ve been running the same pace for months, but I’m sure I’ll somehow drop 30 seconds per mile next week.

• I’m planning on hitting a huge PR in my next race, even though I’ve barely trained, and my body feels off.

Let’s focus on our goals and create a solid plan to get from point A to point B, then follow through with discipline to achieve it. It sounds simple, even obvious, but haven’t we all found ourselves stuck in wishful thinking at some point—maybe even recently? Now that we understand the difference, let’s commit to staying on the right side of the line and strive for the best, most realistic performance we can achieve.

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Thoughts from a Coaching Role Model

Thoughts from a Coaching Role Model

  By Coach Adolfo Salgueiro

The way to grow as a coach is through experience, reading, listening to people who know more than you and asking them questions. Obtaining a coaching certification is important, but it is not what makes you a competent one. It is just a steppingstone into a fascinating world of learning and experimentation. Maintaining curiosity alive is what has made the coach I am today.

One of the most influential people in my coaching journey has been Steve Magness. He is knowledgeable, curious, experienced, science based, and a clear communicator. He is also generous, sharing his expertise and experience through many channels.

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Steve Magness is one of the most influential people in my coaching journey

Magness is a globally recognized authority on performance and the author of influential books such as \”Do Hard Things\” and \”Peak Performance\”. His work delves into the intricacies of resilience and the science behind true toughness. Beyond his literary contributions, Magness has coached an array of clients ranging from professional sports teams to executives and artists, emphasizing a holistic approach to performance enhancement. His expertise has garnered attention from publications such as The New York Times and The Guardian, reflecting his profound impact on the realms of elite sport and mental performance.

In a social media world filled with shallowness and stupidity, Magness\’ feeds stand out as an oasis of enlightenment. I\’ve curated three of his posts that encapsulate concise running wisdom. May they prove as beneficial to you as they have been to me.

On Greatness

What does it take to be great?

A relentless drive, a fiery competitiveness?

Yes, but the same thing that makes you great can be your downfall.

The greats balance it out:

– Caring deeply but being able to let go

– Harnessing aggression but in a controlled way

– A desire to win, to achieve, but with enough intrinsic motivation to keep them from chasing.

Learn how to become great without falling apart.

Steve Magness

My take: You have a running goal? Great! Focus and work for it. Work hard. Give it the best chance to become reality. It is OK to want it badly. Nothing wrong with it. But you can’t let it rule your life. Especially if running is not your profession. Don’t let a running goal ruin your life. Your family will still love you if you are not a Sub-2 half marathoner. If your friends don’t value you unless you are a Sub-3 marathoner, it is time to change friends. Maintain perspective.

On the training process:

The 5 Rules of Training:

1. The boring stuff is your foundation. Do that consistently for a long time.

2. Let it Come, Don’t Force it.

3. Take the Next Logical Step. Don\’t skip many steps.

4. You lose what you don’t train. You are either building or maintaining something.

5. Train the individual, not the system.

Steve Magness

My take: Endurance training is a journey that demands trust and patience. While the allure of speed may be captivating, it\’s the establishment of a solid foundation what truly matters. Constructing this base entails a methodical yet sometimes monotonous progression through various training stages. Each one is an essential step for improvement. Your coach is not hiding the shortcuts.

On Competitiveness

We’re used to thinking of competitiveness as either you got it, or you don’t.

But ​research​ paints a different picture. It depends where that competitiveness comes from.

Hyper-competitiveness is when we try to maintain our sense of self through winning. We seek validation through the external.

Self-developmental competitiveness occurs when the internal matters more than the external. It’s about growing through competing, discovering who we are, what we’re capable of & how to improve.

Steve Magness

My take: We all know that runner whose self-worth is linked to his/her PRs. Most likely you know someone who rather end up assisted by paramedics than not make it to the podium. Unless you are in the Olympics, it is not worth missing your kids’ wedding. It is not about not making sacrifices for what you want, it is about not neglecting your life, health, and family in exchange for a PR.

If you have any thoughts, please share them in the comment box below.

 
Balancing Running and Life: Finding Perspective

Balancing Running and Life: Finding Perspective

By Coach Adolfo Salgueiro

A few days ago, I received a phone call from one of my athletes. She’s training for her second marathon, which is fast approaching. My concerns exploded right away, as the first words out of her mouth were: “I have a problem!”. Possibilities such as injury, illness, unexplained pains, job loss, etc., started rushing through my mind. In this blog post, we\’ll explore the art of balancing running and life, especially when facing unexpected life dilemmas.

“What’s happening?”, I asked as I tried to contain my uneasiness so I could keep her calm.

“My husband bought tickets to a comedy show on Friday night, and I won’t be able to do my Saturday long run?”. She explained.

Balancing Running and Life

Multiple aspects of your life must be juggled around so your running doesn’t become the ruler of your schedule (Photo Michael Judkins, Pexels)

As the color returned to my face, I told her with the best sarcastic tone I could muster: “What an inconsiderate man! Wanting to go out on a Friday night, with his wife, to have fun? That is awful. If you could only move that long run to Sunday.”

Then I explained that as important as her marathon is, and as much as she is invested in her running, keeping a balanced life between family, work, and running is essential. This was not the night before her marathon, and it doesn’t happen every Friday night. If she doesn’t allow the necessary flexibility to move some workouts around, then her husband, her kids, and eventually her, will resent her running. That would be disastrous for all the parties involved.

“Thank you for the perspective”, she said. And hung up two seconds later”.

I guarantee this incident is not an isolated one. I bet every single reader of this blog post has a personal version of this story. I certainly do. More than one. At one time or another, we had to confront this reality. “I want to train. But my—insert relationship here—wants to—insert activity here— What should I do?”

Most likely you are not qualifying for the Olympics, lining up side-by-side with Eliud Kipchoge at the Berlin Marathon start, or even considered the favorite to win your local 5K. So, moving things around in your training schedule, or God forbid, skipping a workout, are feasible arrangements to fit in running around your life.

Balancing Running and Life

What to do if you score World Series tickets for the night before your marathon?

In my experience, both personally and as a coach, the newer you are in the sport, the tougher it becomes to keep running in perspective. As you get started on your journey, the improvement curve is so steep that you want to keep the progress for as long as possible. You may not understand the benefits of a day off, or that not one particular session is going to make or break your race or your running career. This is the time when you must check in with your coach or your more experienced running buddies to help you put it into perspective.

Just like the runner at the start of this post, you may be taken aback by tickets to an event at an inconvenient time. It happens. Hopefully, you shared your goal race with your significant other and he/she will time well the invitations. But it could also happen that you get your hands on tickets to something like the World Series when your team is playing but is happening the night before your New York City Marathon. Then it is time to choose between a once-in-a-lifetime event and what you’ve trained for but may certainly do again, later.

My son got married on a Friday night in November. That’s high training season for local racing where I live. Asking my son to get married another day because I run long on Saturdays was not right. Missing his wedding was out of the question. So, what do you do? You attend your son’s wedding, you have fun and you forget about running on behalf of a momentous occasion in the life of an important person in your life. That’s what you do.

Sure, sacrifices must be made. But it is never about having to choose between your running and your spouse, your significant other, your kids, your family, friends, or work. It is about understanding that in life, there are more important things than a rack full of medals.

Have you ever had a dilemma between running and life? Please share your experience in the comment box, below.

 
When You Must Withdraw from Your Marathon

When You Must Withdraw from Your Marathon

By Coach Adolfo Salgueiro

A few months ago, I posted on Facebook that I had signed up for the Marine Corps Marathon, which will take place on October 29th. Up until a few days ago, I was training for it. Today I must announce that I am withdrawing from the race. It is a regrettable yet humbling experience that is currently forcing me to reassess where I am with my running, why I got here, and how to get out of it.

 

Withdraw from your marathon

It is not a failure as long as you learn from it so it doesn’t happen again (Photo: Pexels)

It is more than safe for my readers to assume that training was not going as planned. It had become more of a suffer-fest than the enjoyable experience with its usual highs and lows. Things were not clicking. The efforts were mammoth-like. Recovery took too long. I began to dread the long runs. The speed work took so much out of me that I was unable to feel any progress. It was a death spiral.

Maybe I was overtrained or under-recovered. Maybe it was the heatwave currently affecting the entire Northern Hemisphere. Maybe the long runs at 86º temperatures (30ºC) with 100% humidity, where your sweat doesn’t evaporate, were overtaxing my body. Maybe, as running comes in cycles, I am amid a low instead of a high. Maybe, a month away from 58, I must accept that I am not what I was just a few years ago. Maybe the few extra pounds I haven’t been able to shed off were multiplying my effort. Maybe my body is not the same two years after my open-heart surgery. Maybe it is a combination of everything. Who knows?

It was a tough decision, as I was training with two committed runners I am also coaching. Seeing them thrive while the coach could not keep up was embarrassing. It was difficult when we set out for a long run, and I had to turn around earlier because I knew that I just didn’t have it that day, or the next, and the next, too. As if this wasn’t enough, my left knee, the weakest link in my running life (2 surgeries), started hurting again for the first time in years. Deep inside I believed that if I kept going, everything would eventually click. That my body would magically adapt. I know I hung on longer than I should have just because I felt obligated to my runners. But the time of reckoning was inevitable.

As I was suffering, plenty of friends told me that I shouldn’t worry because October in DC has wonderful weather. As much as I appreciate the thought and encouragement, I still needed to train in the hot and muggy South Florida so I could enjoy the good weather in DC, in October.

 

Withdraw from your marathon

The updated version of this picture will have to wait.

And that’s the other thing. There is no doubt in my mind that I could have finished the race. But with 11 marathons under my belt, just finishing is no longer a worthy goal. I am not willing to suffer to cross the line in 5:30. I wanted to run a marathon at 58 so I could beat my dad’s age of 57 when he ran his last. I also wanted to run it in 4:30, to beat the 4:43 of his last 26.2. So, God willing, I still have plenty of time to achieve those two goals, hopefully while my dad is still alive, so I can brag about them.

The next steps are to reassess where I am at this point and how I got here. I will start by resting my body. I will keep running but won’t push too hard through the muggy days with longer or faster runs. I will work based on effort and run easily to regain the aerobic capacity I feel I have lost. I will focus on running the best half marathon I can next season. Hopefully, three or four of them until I can put together an effort I can be satisfied with. Maybe I’ll try to set new 55+ PRs in the 5K and 10K. Once I feel I am back, then I will figure out what is next and plan for my next marathon. I know I have at least one more in me.

The one thing I know is that I will keep running. Withdrawing from this marathon is a humbling experience that I must learn from. It is only a failure if you don’t learn anything from it and thus, you screw it up again.

I live by my motto: Always moving forward.

 
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