A few years ago, in a Facebook group I belonged to, someone asked for recommendations on what to include in a kit for a 5K she was putting together for some community center. âA tech shirtâ, said someone. âA good bag that you can actually use after the raceâ, stated someone else. âA travel mug with the race logo,â chimed in a 3rd person. As asked, I added my 2 cents: âA pair of custom-made running shoes delivered to my door by Eliud Kipchoge himselfâ.
And I was not being facetious. I was expressing how much I would love for Eliud Kipchoge to personally hand-deliver a pair of custom-made running shoes as part of that 5K. The point was that you may include whatever you want in a race kit, it is just a matter of cost.
For those of us who have been competing for a few decades, races where you only got a bib and traffic control were commonplace. Races with medals, tech shirts, expos, and celebrity participation were the exception. Or they were the exclusive domain of races with a major sponsor, the New York City Marathon, or similar events.
In a recent Runnerâs World Newsletter, they stated that âveterans of the first running boom in the late 1970s and early 1980s love to recount the simplicity of that eraâs races. âSomeone would draw a line in the road, yell âGo!â, and then hand you a popsicle stick with your place as you finished. Entry fees were a dollar or two. The post-race party was a tailgate at someoneâs station wagon.â
Even the convenience of registering online adds to the price of a race (Photo Pexels)
Now we complain if the medal looks cheap, if hydration has no options, if there is no entertainment along the way, if all we get is a banana, if the race shirt design is not to our liking, if there are no finish line professional pictures, if the race kit has only a handful coupons, etc. All great optionsâbut they cost money, and you have to pay for them.
When you have water, Gatorade, or multiple flavors of gels every two miles, understand that it is part of the $80 for 10K or $150 for a half marathon you ponied up. When you go out of your way to thank all police officers for being there, donât forget you paid for their time. This is when you should be mad at a crappy medal, a cotton race shirt, not having a banana, or them cramming age groups every 10 years.
According to that same RW post, âa RunSignupâs 2023 report found that the average 5K cost $29.90. Half marathons in the $100 range are now typical. And in December, 1,000 runners will get boutique treatment (personal fluids, pacers, indoor warmup space, etc.) at The Marathon Project in exchange for a $500 entry fee. Even allowing for inflation and exaggeration, races cost relatively much more than in days of yore. What gives?â
There are always cheap race organizers. The ones who charge premium prices yet donât have crowd control and mix hundreds of runners with regular space users, such as a beach boardwalk. Sure, there are the ones that accommodate a half marathon within the confines of a public park, donât have police control in place, get you a cheap generic award, and have no qualms about overcharging you. You should not participate in those races.
Look. I am not saying âthe old times were betterâ. I am not here to advocate the return of the $15 Boston Marathon. The point here is to understand that you get what you pay for. When racing is labeled as a charity event it is because funds are being raised for a noble cause, not because sponsors want to subsidize your racing ego. So, there are two clear options:
A â Treat every local 5K as if it were a World Marathon Major celebration and demand what you pay for if you donât get it.
B â Accept a no-frills race at a no-frills price and then donât go complaining on Tik Tok about how crappy the medal was.
Do you think race fees are justified? Drop your thoughts in the comments below!
For those who have only run one marathon, it is an adventure. For those who have completed the distance more than once, the only thing in common between one and another finish is the 26.2-mile distance. Each one brings a new challenge, a new experience, a new obstacle to overcome, and a new journey.
On January 19, I completed my 12th-lifetime marathon. At 59, I am unsure if I have another one in me, but I am not ruling it out. What I do know is that from each one I can take a life and/or a running lesson. Looking back on 42 years of marathoning, these are my takeaways from each one of them:
Running a marathon is a magnificent experience. Lifechanging. But it is not an easy task. It requires effort, sweat, suffering, and wondering why in the world you chose to impose this on yourself and on purpose. Once you cross the finish line, something wonderful happens. A transformation to last a lifetime. And for some weird and masochistic reason, you start thinking of the next one.
2 â New York 1983 â Age 18 â Time: 4:51:36
I thought I could go sub-4 just because I was close to my previous one. But the stupidity of youth got in the way. Having run one before is no substitute for decent training. Had I trained better, with consistency and dedication, I could have avoided the suffer-fest I endured on this cold and rainy NY morning. I learned the hard way that there is no substitution for preparation. It doesnât have to be perfect, but it has to be worth the âtrainingâ label, at least.Â
3 â Caracas 1984 â Age 19 â Time 3:32:08
My all-time PR thanks to the guidance of an experienced runner who knew what he was doing and coached me. The difference between this result and the previous one is that I put in the work. At 19 years of age, I sacrificed the partying, the drinking, and the late nights with my friends so I could put forth my best effort. I hit the wall at the 32nd Km (Mile 20) yet still set a solid PR. Looking back, if we knew then what we know now about in-race calorie intake and electrolyte replenishment, I may have a better PR. But that doesnât matter now. Hard work paid off, even if hitting the wall.
4 – Caracas 1985 â Age 20 â Time 3:35:04
Even with my responsibilities at work, school and trying to fit in some of the fun I sacrificed the previous year, I had a successful race despite missing my PR by 2:56. The experience from the previous year allowed me to manage the race better and even though the last 5 miles were still tough, I did not walk. The years of accumulated effort compounded so a successful race could be achieved despite the hot weather I confronted.
5 â Philadelphia 2012 â Age 47 â Time: 5:41:40
Eight years after my 2nd knee operation and having accepted the doctor told me I could not run anymore, I discovered racewalking and came back to long distances, regimented training and rediscovered the lure of footraces, long distances and runnerâs highs. I accepted the days of running at 3:30 were over and trained for what my older body would allow me. So, 26 years after my previous marathon, I racewalked through the City of Brotherly Love and cried while crossing the finish line while F-U-ing the doctor who told me I couldnât do it. You can do more than you think possible if you adjust to your circumstances.
6 â Chicago 2013 â Age 48 â Time: 5:44:56
Your body can do way more than you expect from it if you train it, fuel it, and take care of it, not just during the 3 or 4 months prior to your marathon, but for many years or for a lifetime. I endured three visits to the emergency room 3 times during my training, and I participated with the prospect of passing a kidney stone at any time. My training was not ideal (but unlike my NYC 1983 experience, I did train some), yet I finished and did so with a grateful smile despite being my personal worst. I did the best I could with what was available for me that day. It is not always about a PR for a marathon to be a success.
7 â Marine Corps 2014 â Age 49 â Time: 5:33:31
With three years of racewalking and two marathons under my soles, I was ready to go for a PR. I got a racewalking expert to write me a training plan; I followed it to the tee; I sacrificed late nights, ate clean, put in the work, and traveled to DC feeling very strong. The work paid off, and an 8-minute racewalking PR was the result. It was a bit hard at the end and I lost my sub 5:30 in the last 6 miles, but there is nothing to regret. Another successful marathon when focusing on the task.
8 â New York 2017 â Age 52 â Time: 4:51:48
In 2015 I realized I was racewalking because the doctor told me not to run, not because I had tried and failed. So, I tried and did not fail and two years later, I was at the Verrazano Narrows bridge, 34 years after my first participation. I trained diligently, and the results reflect my efforts. I was at my desired 4:30 pace until we got back to Manhattan, when my left knee started acting up. As soon as we entered Central Park at mile 23 I realized it was not worth permanent injury, so I mostly walked the last 5K and still finished 12 seconds off my NYC when I was 18. Hard work pays off even if your race gets derailed at the end.
9 â Berlin 2018 â Age 53 â Time: 5:09:03
Sometimes you may be fully prepared; you did everything right, you worked hard, you are at the right weight, and you are mentally there, yet your race totally sucks. So much that you lose the joy of what you are doing, you finish 40 minutes above the time you trained for and then swear youâll never do this again. Good training is no guarantee of a good race. Sometimes the stars are just not aligned for you.
10 â New York 2020 â Age 55 â Time 5:28:14
Didnât I swear I wasnât going to do this anymore? In the middle of the pandemic, I had been dealing with a congenital heart issue for the last 18 months or so. I was told not to raise my heart rate over a certain threshold. I kept running super easy through the lockdown. So I could keep focused, I took the NYC Marathon virtual challenge. I set up a race/walk protocol; I trained diligently, set up a route and support system, and I completed the distance. As with my knee and racewalking a few years ago, I realized I could adjust to my circumstances and still conquer another marathon.
11 â Houston 2022 â Age 56 â Time 5:16:45
I registered for this marathon two weeks before my June open-heart surgery because I wanted to make sure I had something pressing me to get back to work. I was cleared to run in September, and 4 months later, I ran/walked the marathon. This marathon told me that in certain circumstances, time goals are irrelevant because the fact that you can bring your body back to perform the task overshadows any clock. This finish allowed me to, in just 7 months, to pass the page and move on to the rest of my life.
12 â Houston Marathon 2025 â Age 59 â Time 5:16:52
After two difficult years of running, when little went right, when I wondered if my best running days were behind me, and when I had to accept that after my open-heart surgery, I may have lost a step or two, training finally clicked, and I was ready for another marathon. I had the privilege of running side-by-side for 20 miles with two good friends. Then we parted ways and at Mile 23, my left IT band started killing me and forced me to suffer/walk the last 5K. I was happy to finish but unhappy with the result. It happens. Good training never guarantees a good result.
The leitmotif of my marathoning has been overcoming obstacles and learning lessons on the way. Even though my lifetime PR is decent at 3:32, I accept that after 40+ years in action, my best running years are behind me. That doesnât diminish any accomplishments I may add to my medal rack between now and the day the Lord calls me.
Sharing what Iâve learned with the marathoners I train is what keeps me focused and thankful for the struggles and successes along the way. Even though I crossed the marathon finish line only 12 times, through my athletes, I have crossed it over 100 times.
 If you know me in person, have read my blog posts, or checked my website, you know I have been running for quite a while. Physical activity, running in particular, has been an intrinsic part of my life for over four decades (I am 59). Yet, I am still learning.
And I am doing so because running is a journey, not a destination. You don’t stop doing martial arts when you reach the black belt. You don’t stop practicing piano once you have mastered Rachmaninoff’s Symphony No. 2. You don’t stop riding a bike the day you take the training wheels off. You get the point. This is a process with no end target.
The journey of running has no destination (Image by Windows Copilot)
While racing and accomplishments are important stepping stones, as they should be, becoming a runner for life requires more than a new PR in your next 10K, running your 100th half marathon, beating your buddy in the next marathon, or reaching for a new ultra distance. While all those are worthy goals, they should be there for you to remain focused and avoid unnecessary detours in the journey.
So, as there is no finish line, focusing on the journey is a must if we want to become lifetime runners. There are worthwhile stops on the way, sure. That marathon you always wanted to run, that time you always wanted to beat, or that trash-talking runner you want to leave in the dust at the next race. But if you miss the big picture, once that temporary goal has been achieved, you will look outside of running to provide your endorphin fix.
All this sounds interesting and philosophically sound, but what does it mean?
To me, the journey is what I learn about myself along the way. It is testing my physical and mental limits and my will to do the hard work so I can reach the goals I seek. It is the lifetime and temporary friendships I build through the miles. It is my medal display that reminds me when I am down or injured, of what is possible. And so much more. And if this wasn\’t enough, I have the health benefits of the exercise.
The journey is individual and should have its own meaning for each runner/reader. I encourage you to find yours so you can keep moving forward.
My brother, a three-time marathoner, has a great saying that summarizes the idea that it is not about one specific accomplishment: \”On marathon day, you are just going to pick up the medal. The marathon is already behind you.\”
I would love to hear about your running journey. Please share in the comment box below.
All of us runners have been there. And if you haven’t, keep running, and you will: missing the PR we trained for, walking on a run we thought we were supposed to excel in, being beat by that one person who can’t even keep up with us in training, selling ourselves a valid excuse for what just happened. We have just failed!
Sure, failure sucks. There is no other way to put it or sell it to ourselves or to our friends. But it doesn’t have to be final. It critical to your growth as a runner. And as a person.
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It happens, learn your lessons and move forward. (Photo: Polina Zimmerman, Pexels)
There is an excellent quote by Jimmy Dugan, played by Tom Hanks in the movie A League of Their Own, when one of the players tells him she’s no longer enjoying baseball because it has become too hard: “It’s supposed to be hard. If it weren’t hard, everyone would do it. The hardâŠis what makes it great!”
So, how do we embrace something that sucks, hurts and yet could be beneficial, and make it the cornerstone of our running growth? I suggest these steps:
1 â Accept your feelings: Don’t suppress your emotions after the failure. Don’t put a façade for your buddies. These feelings are normal, healthy and must be worked through your system so they may be processed.
2âStep away from guarded mode: Okay, you failed. So what? Is your wife going to leave you? Are your friends disowning you? You have processed your emotions and accepted what happened. It is time to stop dwelling on it and move forward.
3 â Find the lessons to be learned: What happened? Why? Was it an external factor or was it something under your control? What will you do differently next time? Identify the factors that contributed to the failure and strategize on how not to allow this to happen again. If it was your error, own it.
4 â Embrace the failure: Now that you know what happened, why, and how to avoid it next time, it is time to focus on your next objective. You have accepted that a flop does not reflect your value as a person. Even if you missed the Olympic gold medal, it is an opportunity for growth. The runner who hasn’t failed, just hasn’t run enough.
5 â Enrich yourself by what you’ve learned: A long time ago, I heard someone (I can’t recall who) say that “what you get when you don’t obtain what you originally set out for, is experience”. Make this experience part of your narrative. Share your story with others letting them know that setbacks are a natural obstacle in the path to success.
I have compiled a list of failure-related quotes by people from all walks of life. These quotes corroborate that failure can only become a permanent mark in your life when you keep dwelling on it or learn nothing from it.
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Tak advantage of the opportunity (Photo: Brett Jordan, Pexels)
âș “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work” â Thomas Edison.
âș “Some sessions are stars, and some are stones, but in the end, they are all rocks and we build upon them” â Chrissie Wellington, four-time World Ironman Champion.
âș “A bad run is better than no run” â Unknown.
âș “Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better” â Samuel Beckett, Playwright, novelist, Nobel laureate.
âș “Relish the bad training runs. Without them it’s difficult to recognize, much less appreciate, the good ones” â Pat Teske, Resilience expert, health advocate, coach.
âș”We all have bad days and bad workouts, when running gets ugly, when split times seem slow, when you wonder why you started. It will pass”â Hal Higdon, legendary running writer.
âș “There will be days you don’t think you can run a marathon. There will be a lifetime of knowing you have” â Unknown.
âș “Get over it â If you have a bad workout or run a bad race, allow yourself exactly 1 hour to stew about it, then move on” â Steve Scott, former U.S. record holder in the mile.
âș “If you never have a bad day, you’re probably doing something wrong; if you never have a ‘good’ day, you’re definitely doing something wrong” â Mark Remy, Runner’s World.
As I write the title of this blog post, I feel like the answer to such silly questions is, âDuh! Of course, I should run with a GPS watch. How Am I going to know what Iâm doing if I donât.â Yet, there is a reason why I chose this topic for this weekâs post. The answer is not so simple.
For a few hundred bucks we have more computing power on our wrists thatn what NASA had to land Apollo 11. Letâs use it wisely (Image by WIndows Copilot)
Our GPS Watches, generically called Garmin as it is the dominant brand in the market, are nowadays as ubiquitous as our smartphones. They are an extension of our smartphones, and they canât work if they are not paired with them.
Iâve written before about not letting our watches become the directors of our runs instead of the recording devices. Also, about the data overload ruining our experience. But this is about what type of runner may benefit or be affected by the use of a GPS device on their wrist.
You should use a GPS Watch if:
âș You understand the data you are looking at and know what to do about it should it need adjustment in the middle of the run. Worrying about your right foot oscillation or maximum power is futile if you donât know what it means, let alone how to fix it or if it even needs fixing.
âș You are running on perceived effort. The pace and all the stats will be the result of how hard you are running, not the other way around. With time, the data will allow you to measure progress.
âș The first thought when you check your metrics in mid-run is, âHow does this reconcile with my running plan for today?â instead of, âWait until my friends see this posted in my social media feedsâ.
âș You can complete an entire easy run without looking at your watch once, regardless of how many times it beeped to let you know data was available. An easy run is about putting in some easy effort miles (hence the name) regardless of your pace.
âș Your self-worth as a runner or as a person is not linked to the number of marathons you ran, your weekly mileage or your average pace.
âș You can maintain your running as your primary focus while receiving feedback from your watch. If the feedback impairs your brain function, makes you wish you were a mathematician or makes you unable to enjoy what you are doing, it may be time to give it a break.
There is no need to connect all this stuff to your wrist when you are running (Photo: Obsahovka Obsahovka, Pexels)
You should ditch the GPS Watch if: âș Knowing your pace is a few seconds off makes you anxious. Sure, we all want to hit specific paces and at certain times. But if running that split in 2:02 instead of 2:00 feels like the end of the world, you are better off running watchless.
âș You feel the need to stop your watch at a traffic light, or a water stop, or to tie your shoe because it will ruin your averages. Races donât stop the clocks when you stop at the port-a-potty. The stoppage is part of the deal. It doesnât matter if it adds a couple of seconds per mile.
âș You see your splits, and the thought of seeing it published on Strava for the world to see worries you to the point that you must make up for it. Especially on training runs.
âș You feel dodging traffic at an intersection or beating a freight train to avoid extra time is a risk worth taking.
âș your need for hyper connection to the world is so endemic that your watch constantly beeps with texts and emails, and you canât help but check them.
I am not advocating against the GPS watch. I am advocating against it ruling our running. We donât need another smartphone-type device sucking the joy of something we love and controlling our lives. We are not professional runners. We run because we want to, and if the GPS watch is hindering such enjoyment, why allow it?
The physiological benefits of your training will be realized whether the mileage is posted on Instagram or not. It is not like that last 20-miler wonât help you on the marathon because it doesnât show on Strava. You can also apply a revolutionary concept: keep the watch running and not look at it. Then you can analyze the data later instead of during. What a revolutionary concept!
A GPS Watch is an extraordinary tool. One that, for a few hundred bucks, provides you with more computing power than what NASA had at its disposal to land Apollo 11 on the Moon. If you can use it as a collector of data to be analyzed at the appropriate time so you can become a better runner, go for it! If not, then rethink its use.
Please like this post and share any recommendations from your previous experiences in the box below. Letâs build a community of informed and prepared runners.
As we gear up for our goal races for the 2024-25 season, we set up objectives, benchmarks, training plans and invest countless hours, sacrifices, money, and emotions into what we want it to be. So, this may be an appropriate time to remind ourselves that we do this because we like challenges, because we are a little bit crazy, and because we like running. Nobody runs (or shouldnât) because of a desire to be miserable.
Unfortunately, the ubiquitousness of the GPS watch in our sport has made us a bit miserable by turning our attention to countless measurements, mostly of parameters we donât understand or should even care for. This, combined with social media oversharing, has turned training into competition. It has led to many a runner burnout, injury, and the withdrawal of the fun element of running.
I am writing this blog post because I recently saw the meme below (Credit to the appropriately named website www.dumbrunner.com). Is this you?
From www.dumbrunner.com
Unfortunately, this is not meant to be a funny meme. It is a sad reflection on what many of us have become thanks to a combination of what our GPS watch can measure and what we can share in social media. If this is not you, someone close to you certainly is.
We all know that person who:
âą stops the watch at a traffic light or water break because it will mess their averages.
âą equates their personal or athletic self-worth to their racing PRs.
âą complained that a World Marathon Major was mismeasured because their GPS watch said so.
âą ended up on the verge of death on a day it just wasnât meant to be rather than show their unknown Strava friends that they had a difficult day.
âą lives by his/her VO2Max fluctuation without even understanding what that VO2Max measures.
âą refuses to take a day off because theyâve been predicating they are in a streak and nothing can stop them.
I once heard Coach Jonathan Marcus state that âthe watch is a record, not a directorâ. What a deep thought! And sure, we all want to know whatâs happening with our running, especially now that instant feedback is a wrist flip away. But most of what is being measured is product our running, it is not our running per se.
We must understand that:
âą A 9.94 vs. a 10.00 run is not going to make a difference in your training.
âą Not all intervals are supposed to measure how far or fast we can run on a predetermined amount of time or distance.
âą Not everyone is interested in the splits of each one of your 20, 200-meter repeats.
âą It still counts towards your fitness even if you did not post it on Facebook.
âą Sure, courses may be mismeasured sometimes, but this is not determined by your GPS watch, regardless of how advanced it is.
âą A day off, or two, is not a sign of weakness.
Not looking at your watch from time to time is a liberating experience. Try it. And the coolest thing of all is that your run still counts towards your fitness, your yearly milage and your training log even if your friends donât know about it.
I am not advocating against GPS watches. It is a useful tool, with mass appeal, affordable and has revolutionized training in almost every sport. I can only imagine what Emil Zatopek, Paavo Nurmi or Frank Shorter could have done with one of those on their wrist. What I am promoting is the return of having fun on our runs. Making sure we are putting ourselves through a 20-mile run on a muggy summer day for the right reasons. In my book, showing strangers on Instagram how tough you are is not a valid reason.
Have you experienced and unhealthy relationship with your GPS watch? If so, share how you were able to overcome it, in the comment box below.