Failure and Running Growth

Failure and Running Growth

By Coach Adolfo Salgueiro

All of us runners have been there. And if you haven’t, keep running, and you will: missing the PR we trained for, walking on a run we thought we were supposed to excel in, being beat by that one person who can’t even keep up with us in training, selling ourselves a valid excuse for what just happened. We have just failed!

Sure, failure sucks. There is no other way to put it or sell it to ourselves or to our friends. But it doesn’t have to be final. It critical to your growth as a runner. And as a person.

 

failure and running growth

It happens, learn your lessons and move forward. (Photo: Polina Zimmerman, Pexels)

There is an excellent quote by Jimmy Dugan, played by Tom Hanks in the movie A League of Their Own, when one of the players tells him she’s no longer enjoying baseball because it has become too hard: “It’s supposed to be hard. If it weren’t hard, everyone would do it. The hard
is what makes it great!”

So, how do we embrace something that sucks, hurts and yet could be beneficial, and make it the cornerstone of our running growth? I suggest these steps:

1 – Accept your feelings: Don’t suppress your emotions after the failure. Don’t put a façade for your buddies. These feelings are normal, healthy and must be worked through your system so they may be processed.

2—Step away from guarded mode: Okay, you failed. So what? Is your wife going to leave you? Are your friends disowning you? You have processed your emotions and accepted what happened. It is time to stop dwelling on it and move forward.

3 – Find the lessons to be learned: What happened? Why? Was it an external factor or was it something under your control? What will you do differently next time? Identify the factors that contributed to the failure and strategize on how not to allow this to happen again. If it was your error, own it.

4 – Embrace the failure: Now that you know what happened, why, and how to avoid it next time, it is time to focus on your next objective. You have accepted that a flop does not reflect your value as a person. Even if you missed the Olympic gold medal, it is an opportunity for growth. The runner who hasn’t failed, just hasn’t run enough.

5 – Enrich yourself by what you’ve learned: A long time ago, I heard someone (I can’t recall who) say that “what you get when you don’t obtain what you originally set out for, is experience”. Make this experience part of your narrative. Share your story with others letting them know that setbacks are a natural obstacle in the path to success.

I have compiled a list of failure-related quotes by people from all walks of life. These quotes corroborate that failure can only become a permanent mark in your life when you keep dwelling on it or learn nothing from it.

 

failure and running growth

Tak advantage of the opportunity (Photo: Brett Jordan, Pexels)

â–ș “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work” – Thomas Edison.

â–ș “Some sessions are stars, and some are stones, but in the end, they are all rocks and we build upon them” – Chrissie Wellington, four-time World Ironman Champion.

â–ș “A bad run is better than no run” – Unknown.

â–ș “Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better” – Samuel Beckett, Playwright, novelist, Nobel laureate.

â–ș “Relish the bad training runs. Without them it’s difficult to recognize, much less appreciate, the good ones” – Pat Teske, Resilience expert, health advocate, coach.

â–ș”We all have bad days and bad workouts, when running gets ugly, when split times seem slow, when you wonder why you started. It will pass”– Hal Higdon, legendary running writer.

â–ș “There will be days you don’t think you can run a marathon. There will be a lifetime of knowing you have” – Unknown.

â–ș “Get over it – If you have a bad workout or run a bad race, allow yourself exactly 1 hour to stew about it, then move on” – Steve Scott, former U.S. record holder in the mile.

â–ș “If you never have a bad day, you’re probably doing something wrong; if you never have a ‘good’ day, you’re definitely doing something wrong” – Mark Remy, Runner’s World.

 

Should I Run With a GPS Watch?

Should I Run With a GPS Watch?

By Coach Adolfo Salgueiro

As I write the title of this blog post, I feel like the answer to such silly questions is, ”Duh! Of course, I should run with a GPS watch. How Am I going to know what I’m doing if I don’t.” Yet, there is a reason why I chose this topic for this week’s post. The answer is not so simple.

GPS Watch

For a few hundred bucks we have more computing power on our wrists thatn what NASA had to land Apollo 11. Let’s use it wisely (Image by WIndows Copilot)

Our GPS Watches, generically called Garmin as it is the dominant brand in the market, are nowadays as ubiquitous as our smartphones. They are an extension of our smartphones, and they can’t work if they are not paired with them.

I’ve written before about not letting our watches become the directors of our runs instead of the recording devices. Also, about the data overload ruining our experience. But this is about what type of runner may benefit or be affected by the use of a GPS device on their wrist.

You should use a GPS Watch if:

â–ș You understand the data you are looking at and know what to do about it should it need adjustment in the middle of the run. Worrying about your right foot oscillation or maximum power is futile if you don’t know what it means, let alone how to fix it or if it even needs fixing.

â–ș You are running on perceived effort. The pace and all the stats will be the result of how hard you are running, not the other way around. With time, the data will allow you to measure progress.

â–ș The first thought when you check your metrics in mid-run is, ”How does this reconcile with my running plan for today?” instead of, ”Wait until my friends see this posted in my social media feeds”.

â–ș You can complete an entire easy run without looking at your watch once, regardless of how many times it beeped to let you know data was available. An easy run is about putting in some easy effort miles (hence the name) regardless of your pace.

â–ș Your self-worth as a runner or as a person is not linked to the number of marathons you ran, your weekly mileage or your average pace.

â–ș You can maintain your running as your primary focus while receiving feedback from your watch. If the feedback impairs your brain function, makes you wish you were a mathematician or makes you unable to enjoy what you are doing, it may be time to give it a break.

GPS Watch

There is no need to connect all this stuff to your wrist when you are running (Photo: Obsahovka Obsahovka, Pexels)

You should ditch the GPS Watch if:

â–ș Knowing your pace is a few seconds off makes you anxious. Sure, we all want to hit specific paces and at certain times. But if running that split in 2:02 instead of 2:00 feels like the end of the world, you are better off running watchless.

â–ș You feel the need to stop your watch at a traffic light, or a water stop, or to tie your shoe because it will ruin your averages. Races don’t stop the clocks when you stop at the port-a-potty. The stoppage is part of the deal. It doesn’t matter if it adds a couple of seconds per mile.

â–ș You see your splits, and the thought of seeing it published on Strava for the world to see worries you to the point that you must make up for it. Especially on training runs.

â–ș You feel dodging traffic at an intersection or beating a freight train to avoid extra time is a risk worth taking.

â–ș your need for hyper connection to the world is so endemic that your watch constantly beeps with texts and emails, and you can’t help but check them.

I am not advocating against the GPS watch. I am advocating against it ruling our running. We don’t need another smartphone-type device sucking the joy of something we love and controlling our lives. We are not professional runners. We run because we want to, and if the GPS watch is hindering such enjoyment, why allow it?

The physiological benefits of your training will be realized whether the mileage is posted on Instagram or not. It is not like that last 20-miler won’t help you on the marathon because it doesn’t show on Strava. You can also apply a revolutionary concept: keep the watch running and not look at it. Then you can analyze the data later instead of during. What a revolutionary concept!

A GPS Watch is an extraordinary tool. One that, for a few hundred bucks, provides you with more computing power than what NASA had at its disposal to land Apollo 11 on the Moon. If you can use it as a collector of data to be analyzed at the appropriate time so you can become a better runner, go for it! If not, then rethink its use.

Please like this post and share any recommendations from your previous experiences in the box below. Let’s build a community of informed and prepared runners.

 

A GPS Watch Shouldn’t Rule Your Running

A GPS Watch Shouldn’t Rule Your Running

By Coach Adolfo Salgueiro

As we gear up for our goal races for the 2024-25 season, we set up objectives, benchmarks, training plans and invest countless hours, sacrifices, money, and emotions into what we want it to be. So, this may be an appropriate time to remind ourselves that we do this because we like challenges, because we are a little bit crazy, and because we like running. Nobody runs (or shouldn’t) because of a desire to be miserable.

Unfortunately, the ubiquitousness of the GPS watch in our sport has made us a bit miserable by turning our attention to countless measurements, mostly of parameters we don’t understand or should even care for. This, combined with social media oversharing, has turned training into competition. It has led to many a runner burnout, injury, and the withdrawal of the fun element of running.

I am writing this blog post because I recently saw the meme below (Credit to the appropriately named website www.dumbrunner.com). Is this you?

Run without GPS watch

From www.dumbrunner.com

Unfortunately, this is not meant to be a funny meme. It is a sad reflection on what many of us have become thanks to a combination of what our GPS watch can measure and what we can share in social media. If this is not you, someone close to you certainly is.

We all know that person who:

‱ stops the watch at a traffic light or water break because it will mess their averages.

‱ equates their personal or athletic self-worth to their racing PRs.

‱ complained that a World Marathon Major was mismeasured because their GPS watch said so.

‱ ended up on the verge of death on a day it just wasn’t meant to be rather than show their unknown Strava friends that they had a difficult day.

‱ lives by his/her VO2Max fluctuation without even understanding what that VO2Max measures.

‱ refuses to take a day off because they’ve been predicating they are in a streak and nothing can stop them.

Run without GPS watchI once heard Coach Jonathan Marcus state that “the watch is a record, not a director”. What a deep thought! And sure, we all want to know what’s happening with our running, especially now that instant feedback is a wrist flip away. But most of what is being measured is product our running, it is not our running per se.

We must understand that:

‱ A 9.94 vs. a 10.00 run is not going to make a difference in your training.

‱ Not all intervals are supposed to measure how far or fast we can run on a predetermined amount of time or distance.

‱ Not everyone is interested in the splits of each one of your 20, 200-meter repeats.

‱ It still counts towards your fitness even if you did not post it on Facebook.

‱ Sure, courses may be mismeasured sometimes, but this is not determined by your GPS watch, regardless of how advanced it is.

‱ A day off, or two, is not a sign of weakness.

Not looking at your watch from time to time is a liberating experience. Try it. And the coolest thing of all is that your run still counts towards your fitness, your yearly milage and your training log even if your friends don’t know about it.

I am not advocating against GPS watches. It is a useful tool, with mass appeal, affordable and has revolutionized training in almost every sport. I can only imagine what Emil Zatopek, Paavo Nurmi or Frank Shorter could have done with one of those on their wrist. What I am promoting is the return of having fun on our runs. Making sure we are putting ourselves through a 20-mile run on a muggy summer day for the right reasons. In my book, showing strangers on Instagram how tough you are is not a valid reason.

Have you experienced and unhealthy relationship with your GPS watch? If so, share how you were able to overcome it, in the comment box below.

Book Review: Marathon Woman

Book Review: Marathon Woman

Written by Kathrine Switzer

Reviewed by Coach Adolfo Salgueiro

I’ve wanted to read Marathon Woman for quite a while. For years. But because I thought I knew the Kathrine Switzer Boston Marathon story, other running books ended up jumping the line. Now that I tackle it, and finished it, I am glad I did. There is so much more to the generic story most of us think we know. There is so much more about this pioneering woman that every runner with the most basic interest in the history of our sport, especially women, should know.

The book was originally published in April 2007, for the 40th anniversary of her historic 1967 Boston Marathon. A new and updated version was released for the 50th anniversary.

Runners with basic knowledge in the history of running may know who Kathrine Switzer is. Yes, she was the first woman that while properly registered, ran the Boston Marathon. Yes, she is the protagonist of that set of three photos where the marathon official, Jock Semple, attacks her while trying to rip her bib. And yes, she is one of the pioneers of women’s long-distance running.

Marathon Woman

The set of photos by Harry A. Trask that propelled women’s running into a legitimate sport

But that is just part of the story. Only part of her legacy. She did so much more to promote that women were more than able to run beyond 800 meters, that they could run as far as they wished, including marathons at high speed without their uterus falling out. She was the catalyst of the women’s marathon becoming an Olympic event starting in 1984. And she did it not as a banner of feminism but because she believed women could do it, and se set out to prove it through actions. Not just words.

I am not going to go deep into the history of women’s running in the last 50 years. That is what the book is there for. But have this in mind: if you are a woman runner reading this post, next time you are in a race and see that more than half of the field being female, make sure you thank Kathrine Switzer.

I am sure that if Switzer did no endured and persevered through what she did, women would still be running marathons today. Another pioneer would have risen to the occasion. But Switzer was the one who did it, and as such, she should be recognized as a trailblazer in our sport. One of the most influential figures in history.

Marathon Woman

Switzer was more than a curiosity. She won the NYC Marathon, 2nd set up at 2:52 PR in Boston.

In her first-person account the author is very candid, vulnerable, and open about her life, both on and off the asphalt. She starts as a girl who just wants to run but finds no outlet, through her fateful first marathon, her win in the NYC Marathon, her 2:51 PR, the AVON race series for women and finally establishing the female marathon as an Olympic event.

Switzer is funny, intimate, candid and holds no punches while discussing her personal life experiences, especially when it comes to the men she has shared her life with. Her romantic relationships were not the best, yet she was able to persevere and come victorious on the other side, without surrendering as a victim and still making her life’s goal a reality.

You don’t have to be a runner, or a woman for that matter, to enjoy and learn something from Marathon Woman. I highly recommend it. It is worth two particularly important resources: your time and your money.

Have you read Marathon Woman? Let me know your thoughts in the comment box below.

Running is Therapeutic, Not Therapy

Running is Therapeutic, Not Therapy

By Elizabeth Morales

As far back as I can remember, movement has been a prominent part of my life. Whether it was always wanting to play outside as a child or being old enough to join team sports, I’ve always had a desire to move my body. This was fundamental to my upbringing, and little did I know that movement would evolve into one of my best coping mechanisms.

In honor of mental health awareness month, I wanted to share a little bit of my story and how running has helped me cope.

Therapy running

“ I used to be one of those people who felt like running was my therapy, but I have since grown to realize that running is therapeutic, not a substitute for therapy”

I think we can all attest to life being hard sometimes. As a child I dealt with my parents’ divorce and as I grew up, I began to see that life was not always so pleasant. In the seventh grade I decided to try out for the track team. I missed my dad and wanted to find more time with him. I knew if I started running track it would allow me to see him more and provide another way to bond. My dad was a track star in middle school and high school. Running track started out as a way to see my dad often. He picked me up from practice every day and came to every single track meet. He would always get there right as I was warming up for the 100-meter hurdles, an event he also ran as a teenager. He would give me the usual pep talk and meet me at the finish line. Those memories became the kind you cherish for the rest of your life.

In college I played intramural sports as a distraction, and I ran here and there to try to stay in shape. It was in college where I had my first panic attack. At the time I had no idea what it was, I honestly thought I might have been having an asthma attack. I found myself in my first toxic relationship with heavy insecurities and inadequate coping skills.

Fast forward to 2012, the hardest year of my life thus far. I felt like life was trying to keep me down that year. My mother got diagnosed with leukemia, I was going through yet another extremely hard break-up, and my grandfather passed away from cancer. It felt like one thing after the other. I was treading water with the fear of drowning that year. I was not well, and I didn’t know who to turn to.

That was the year I started therapy. Mental health can still be a taboo subject for some people and to be quite honest I felt more scared to walk into that office than to open up and start talking. I remember arriving and sitting in my car contemplating if I should go in or put it in reverse and drive away. I felt like if I needed a therapist then I must be crazy, right? Walking through that door was the catalyst of my growth journey.

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Lizzie used running track to form a tighter bond with her dad.

As I started to work on myself in therapy, I started to run more. Being outdoors in nature is a common recommendation, whether it’s running, walking or just sitting outside letting the sun hit your face. For me, I felt liberated doing something for myself. It allowed me to be alone with my thoughts and with every step I felt as if I were moving in the right direction, leaving all the negativity behind. The energy I exerted seemed to keep my anxiety in check. Running gave me hope.

 I used to be one of those people who felt like running was my therapy, but I have since grown to realize that running is therapeutic, not a substitute for therapy. Some of my deepest, most profound thoughts come to me when it’s just me and the monotonous sound of my feet hitting the pavement. Running forces you to stay in the present moment, no phones, no scrolling through social media, just you and the road.

Endurance running came into my life when I turned 30, I wanted to celebrate in a different way and ran my first half marathon. Here we are eight years later, and it has become much more than a hobby, it’s quite a passion of mine. Putting my body through a rigorous training block pushes me to believe in myself and that I am capable of all hard things. This belief bleeds into all aspects of my life, not just running.

If I can push myself physically then I can certainly push myself mentally. Running serves as the ultimate metaphor for life: keep moving forward. It does not matter how fast or how slow you go, so long as you keep putting one foot in front of the other.

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Elizabeth Morales, known in the South Florida running community as Lizzie, has completed 20 half marathons and seven marathons. You can follow her on Instagram through @lizzyontherun.

 
Thoughts from a Coaching Role Model

Thoughts from a Coaching Role Model

  By Coach Adolfo Salgueiro

The way to grow as a coach is through experience, reading, listening to people who know more than you and asking them questions. Obtaining a coaching certification is important, but it is not what makes you a competent one. It is just a steppingstone into a fascinating world of learning and experimentation. Maintaining curiosity alive is what has made the coach I am today.

One of the most influential people in my coaching journey has been Steve Magness. He is knowledgeable, curious, experienced, science based, and a clear communicator. He is also generous, sharing his expertise and experience through many channels.

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Steve Magness is one of the most influential people in my coaching journey

Magness is a globally recognized authority on performance and the author of influential books such as \”Do Hard Things\” and \”Peak Performance\”. His work delves into the intricacies of resilience and the science behind true toughness. Beyond his literary contributions, Magness has coached an array of clients ranging from professional sports teams to executives and artists, emphasizing a holistic approach to performance enhancement. His expertise has garnered attention from publications such as The New York Times and The Guardian, reflecting his profound impact on the realms of elite sport and mental performance.

In a social media world filled with shallowness and stupidity, Magness\’ feeds stand out as an oasis of enlightenment. I\’ve curated three of his posts that encapsulate concise running wisdom. May they prove as beneficial to you as they have been to me.

On Greatness

What does it take to be great?

A relentless drive, a fiery competitiveness?

Yes, but the same thing that makes you great can be your downfall.

The greats balance it out:

– Caring deeply but being able to let go

– Harnessing aggression but in a controlled way

– A desire to win, to achieve, but with enough intrinsic motivation to keep them from chasing.

Learn how to become great without falling apart.

Steve Magness

My take: You have a running goal? Great! Focus and work for it. Work hard. Give it the best chance to become reality. It is OK to want it badly. Nothing wrong with it. But you can’t let it rule your life. Especially if running is not your profession. Don’t let a running goal ruin your life. Your family will still love you if you are not a Sub-2 half marathoner. If your friends don’t value you unless you are a Sub-3 marathoner, it is time to change friends. Maintain perspective.

On the training process:

The 5 Rules of Training:

1. The boring stuff is your foundation. Do that consistently for a long time.

2. Let it Come, Don’t Force it.

3. Take the Next Logical Step. Don\’t skip many steps.

4. You lose what you don’t train. You are either building or maintaining something.

5. Train the individual, not the system.

Steve Magness

My take: Endurance training is a journey that demands trust and patience. While the allure of speed may be captivating, it\’s the establishment of a solid foundation what truly matters. Constructing this base entails a methodical yet sometimes monotonous progression through various training stages. Each one is an essential step for improvement. Your coach is not hiding the shortcuts.

On Competitiveness

We’re used to thinking of competitiveness as either you got it, or you don’t.

But ​research​ paints a different picture. It depends where that competitiveness comes from.

Hyper-competitiveness is when we try to maintain our sense of self through winning. We seek validation through the external.

Self-developmental competitiveness occurs when the internal matters more than the external. It’s about growing through competing, discovering who we are, what we’re capable of & how to improve.

Steve Magness

My take: We all know that runner whose self-worth is linked to his/her PRs. Most likely you know someone who rather end up assisted by paramedics than not make it to the podium. Unless you are in the Olympics, it is not worth missing your kids’ wedding. It is not about not making sacrifices for what you want, it is about not neglecting your life, health, and family in exchange for a PR.

If you have any thoughts, please share them in the comment box below.

 
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